Hello. My condolences on the passing of Mr. Reeder. I'd love to share a wonderful story regarding Ralph. My mother, Mickey Brannan, attended Hastings College and was a year behind Ralph. She went to Europe one summer during college (to do a service project with the Daughters of Job I believe) and decided to visit Paris with a few friends. She called Ralph, who she knew from college, and asked him to show them around. Ralph grabbed an army friend from St. Louis named Larry Leahy and they did some sightseeing. That was that. Then two years later, my Mom moved to St. Louis for grad school but she didn't know a soul except that one friend of Ralph's from the Army, so she called my Dad and they were married a year later! My parents had a beautiful marriage with five children and 17 grandchildren. Anyway, I think it's wonderful that your Ralph played a role is all of this and so I wanted to share. God bless you and your family. Joe Leahy, St Louis, Missouri [email protected]