Norman Francis Coffey Jr.

Birth date: Apr 26, 1939 Death date: Apr 25, 2018

Norm (Buddy) died suddenly at his home Wednesday evening. He leaves his wife of 57 years, Marilyn; two daughters, Laura Coffey of Crownsville, MD and Julie McGowan of Pawtucket, RI; the three lights of his eyes, his grandchildren, Read Obituary

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Anonymous

379w ago

Jume 24, 2018
Last night I returned home from Cuba and was informed that "Norm" had passed away in April and I had not been informed of this sad news. I immediately searched my phone records for Marilyn's telephone number and called her and I did not even have to say my name and she knew who was on the phone. I was heart broken that i didn't know before hand of Norm's passing because this is the man that i owe so much for hiring me that faithful day when Chrysler took over the AMC Franchise. In fact, I was the last person officially hired by AMC just before the merger and cannot forget my wife's words to me, " it's time for you to start looking for another job". But Norm had another idea as he interviewed me and gave me an opportunity that changed my world forever. Norm I will miss you forever and sorry that i did not get the chance to say goodbye to you but we will meet again and I will get that second chance. RIP.

John C. Felder

Anonymous

381w ago

We met Bud as he was a regular cyclist through our neighborhood. Bud would always stop and chat, offer stories, and lots of advice about a wide variety of topics. "Cooking" was always a favorite subject! He spoke with such love and care about his family. We shared our love of country and respect for those in the military. Bud was a wealth of friendliness; we were blessed to have known him for even a short period of time.

Pat Gronkiewicz

Anonymous

381w ago

I met Norm Coffey (Bud) about 6 years ago when he was working with Trucking for Troops and was building wooden toys for children in Veterans hospitals waiting rooms. I had a cabinet shop so I was able to give him run ends to build toys. He was a true craftsman, but first and foremost a true gentleman. One of the nicest people I've ever met. I have had the pleasure of meeting his wife Marilyn and his daughter Julie who he thought the world of. I know his loving family will miss him dearly as well as anyone who came into contact with him will also.

Anonymous

381w ago

Sherry - Thank you for sharing this. Dad was definitely not one for serious conversation; if he had to be involved in one, he would always clear his throat first. I hope to meet Helen soon....love you!

Anonymous

381w ago

I received a phone call this week from a new member of our family. Her name is Helen and she our mother's half sister. The month before he died Buddy and I began making plans to introduce Helen to our entire family. This was not to be.

I sent Helen a link to Buddy's obituary and tributes. After she read these she told me that she felt a profound sense of loss although they never had the opportunity to meet.

If you had ever tried to engage Buddy in a serious conversation you'd know that this was not in his comfort zone. During a trip to replenish the wine supply, I asked him if he ever wondered if anyone would miss him as much as we miss our father, Norman Sr. He said no, he never thought about it. I, on the other hand, think about it often.

After reading the tributes so many friends and family have written about Buddy, I know the answer is yes. There are so many, many people that will miss him that much. What a wonderful legacy to leave his family.

His loving sister, Sherry

Anonymous

386w ago

Barbara & Mike Dinger
We were both lucky to have know and worked with this great man during our years at Chrysler.

Anonymous

386w ago

Ron Rupp; I worked for Norm at Chrysler Corp. in Philadelphia in the late 70"s and early 80's and later worked in the Boston Zone where his daughter, Julie, worked as well. Norm was a great boss and teacher. He also had a kind heart. While working in Philadelphia I had a family emergency in Kansas. Norm allowed me to take 3 weeks vacation (only two weeks were allowed at one time) and said not to worry about the office, we'll handle the paperwork! Norm was well respected and liked by the dealers and Chrysler employees. The world has lost a great man!

Anonymous

386w ago

ROBERT FORBES: NORM AND I WORKED VERY CLOSE TOGETHER WITH CHRYSLER CORP. WE WORKED WITH ARE DEALERS I AM SURE MANY OF ARE DEALERS FEEL THE SAME AS I DO. IN SAYING "GOD" BLESS NORMAN. WE KEEP IN TOUCH WITH EACH OTHER ON A DAILY BASICS VIA E:MAIL. NORMAN YOU ARE IN HEAVEN WITH A GREAT GROUP AND THERE WILL BE A DAY THAT I WILL BE WITH YOU WITH "GOD'S" BLESSINGS.

Anonymous

386w ago

Norm was a true friend and an inspiration to me! He was kind and generous, always doing something for others. I used to enjoy the tours of his woodworking studio and was always amazed at Norm's talents and creations to share with others. His toy trucks and cars that would be given to Veteran's children were especially touching! His volunteer work with the Anne Arundel County police was another way Norm gave back to his community! The world would be a gentler, kinder place is more people had a heart as big as Norm's.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Marilyn , Laura, Julie, and the rest of the family!
I will miss you my dear Friend!

Anonymous

386w ago

I have known Norman since we were in first grade. We lost touch after the 8th grade as he went to a different high school. He re entered my life a few years ago through email and phone calls. I will miss his kindness and great sense of humor. He was a WONDERFUL friend. To Marilyn you were so lucky to have him in your life.

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