God sends few special people to one's life. Francine was certainly one. Over twenty years ago we came together at work.
Our relationship was one of laughter, fun, joy and always promise. We even sang together, though I can't sing! She always brought out the best in people. Though I was unaware of her middle name - I just knew it was JOY.
Her optimism was infectious, her love of people profound, her caring of loved ones complete. God gave us something to aspire to - it was Francine and her consummate humanity...what a gift!
Francine tried to coax me to sit on the dock with a glass of wine and a cigar! What a lady! I will forever hold many lovely memories of our times together and be thankful to God for choosing us as friends.
Harry, as you heal, be bathed in the beautiful memories of your special lives together. So many couples have missed that connection. What a gift you have been blessed with. All who knew Francine have been touched by her and challenged by her spirit - I know she has prepared you until eternity when you will meet again.
Know that you are loved by those left behind. Steve and I stand ready to help you in any way we can, at any time - for a meal, a chat, a chance to grieve, to reflect, just to be. Your family is held up in our prayers.
Love, Marilyn and Steve Bandy