My heart is breaking for this beautiful family for the loss of Bill Heffel. I am so sorry for your loss. May the following words bring you some comfort at this painful time.
Over the 36 years that I have known Bill, time spent together has been few and far between due to ever-changing career moves for both of our families. When we were together it was always like the years since our last visit melted away.
Verlinda and I have been friends since high school. When she met Bill I heard a change in her voice, I sensed a change in her heart. That change was Bill. He brought her so much happiness, so much love. This man, Bill, brought her joy and laughter and a never-ending love. It is a love that never wavered through school, raising children, multiple moves to unknown destinations, through sickness and health.
After years of battling health issues, Bill is whole and healthy once again. The trade off for that transition is that we can no longer see him here with us, physically. We do still have all of our wonderful memories of Bill and memories with Bill. In addition to our memories, we must all look for him in different ways. He is still here with us…we can see him in the faces of his children and grandchildren. When we hear beautiful music, we will have Bill with us. When we hear laughter and see the bond of friends and family, we will see Bill.
To honor Bill let us all emulate his gifts of goodness, life, laughter and the greatest gift of all, love.